So you’re not a stand-up comedian and you weren’t voted “funniest” in your high school yearbook. Maybe you will never make crowds of people roll with your laughter. Perhaps you are afraid of trying to be funny and failing.
Although being nervous is understandable it is no excuse not to try and make a girl that you like laugh. Here’s why: Girls LOVE to laugh and they adore men who can make them laugh. It is absolutely, without question, the key to most women’s hearts! So read on for 5 tips on how to make a girl laugh and then give it a shot!
Don’t Try Too Hard
Don’t rehearse jokes, make up silly voice or get loud and obnoxious. This all seems forced, insincere and will make a girl feel uncomfortable and possibly even annoyed. Instead be yourself and let the funny side of YOU come out.
If you don’t think something is funny then don’t say it. If you think something is funny then say it. Everyone’s sense of humor is different and a great way to see if you have something in common with a girl is to see if the two of you find the same things funny.
Tell a Funny Story
If telling jokes, quips or being sarcastic just don’t work for you then don’t worry. Everyone has had funny things happen to them. Tell a funny story and allow the hilarity of the story to make her giggle.
Put on a Funny Movie or TV Show
You two can watch a funny movie together and laugh. You will get a chance to see what each other finds funny and you may be able to talk and laugh about the funny things going on in the movie.
Later on, you can quote the movie or mention a funny scene and you two will be laughing all over again.
Make Fun of Yourself
Don’t tear yourself down but making little jokes about yourself will put her at ease and show that you are able to laugh at yourself. That’s a sign of confidence and is very sexy.
Don’t humiliate yourself just to get a laugh but making little jokes about your flaws is very endearing and cute. She will be laughing right along with you in no time..
Don’t Make Fun of Her or Her Friends
Never, ever make fun of a girl or her friends. She doesn’t want you to pick on her or put her down even if it is in a joking manner.
She certainly doesn’t want you to say anything negative about her friends or family. So be very careful with the jokes that you make about the people around you and, when in doubt, just pick on yourself!
Making a girl laugh is a joy for you and for her. It’s really not as hard as you may think. Just be yourself. If you are nervous or not sure what to say or do then tell a hilarious story, watch a comedy or pick on yourself.
Just remember to be careful who you pick on and what you say because you can go from winning her over to a slap in the face quickly if you pick on the wrong people about the wrong things!