If you want any chance at winning the dating game it is necessary to set up a proper style or swagger. In this article I have outlined the four necessary steps in getting women excited and eager to meet you. This is the way to make yourself seem like a rockstar and pick up anyone you want.
Bring women friends
The simplest way to raising your value towards other women is to bring some women friends with you. You should focus your energy on having a group of pretty friends who are women. By going with a group of women friends to clubs and lounges you will escalate in value to the other women there.
They will believe that you have some value since they’re are already women around you, they will sense that you have something to offer.
Make your movements slower. Act like you are in control of the situation. Do not be in a rush. Make everything you do seem methodical. Slower and methodical movements will make you seem of high status.
Do not seem like you’re in a rush or in a hurry to get somewhere. By slowing down your movements you become the focus of the party, rather than you trying to get to the party.
Have high goals
Many guru’s never mentioned this tip because many guys want a quick fix. The number one way to inspire women and have them gravitate towards you is to have high status.
OK, so this may not be an easy task. Similar to saying, well just be a rockstar and you’ll get the girls. So how you accomplish this you ask?
Set high goals that you will work to accomplish. Even though you haven’t achieved them yet, the ambition is sexy. Women will be eager to get to know you more and they will want you because of your high goals and magnificent vision.
Live life with passion so that even if you do not have money or power, you can emulate what makes those rockstars sexy.
Above all else you must master the art of body language. Women can quickly tell if you are uncomfortable or not. If you look comfortable they will feel the same way and vice-verse.
Most men do not know this simple technique and are completely unaware of it’s power. You must remember that proper body language may actually be more important than what you say in a conversation.
Once you have mastered these four elements, use them in any clubs, lounges, or bars and I guarantee your success rate with women will skyrocket. Women will flock towards you.
Here Are Some Important Things to Keep In Mind When Approaching A Woman
Most men are attracted to females, but how many of those men do something about it? Less then half is the answer. Join the few that do something about their attraction by following these steps:
Clean-Up! Make sure you have good hygiene.
The ladies won’t give you a second look, if you look like a slob, are dirty, smell-bad, or look like you don’t care.
Important things are:
- Hair – Decent style, looks good with your face.
- Body – Recently Showered, with deoderant, and colognue or aftershave applied.
- Fitness – If you are overweight, loose a little bit first…
- Clothes – Nice clothing will go very far. Experiment a little bit and see what works best. Tight shirts are good for muscular men because they emphasize the muscles. A polo is good for all men though, with jeans, good combo.
- Make-Up – If you have terrible skin, it wouldn’t hurt to apply a little bit of make-up on it. If you have unsightly hair, shave it off, bleach it, trim it, just make it presentable.
- Color- Don’t be pale white, look like you’ve seen the sun.
This is probably the most important part, without it, you can be the most good-looking guy in the world, but every women will dump you if you have no personality.
Learn a few jokes and how to have conversation
You don’t have to crack a joke every sentence, but once in a while is always good. Laughter keeps things from getting awkward and she will be grateful for the good time, and will remember laughing and how funny you were, more then she will remember your looks.
- Conversation! Do NOT hog the conversation, take turns, and talk about something you both like, or she likes. She is the girl, if she likes the topic, you let her talk about it! Don’t make her uncomfortable by talking about something she doesn’t enjoy, she won’t really care, and find you a boring person.
MAKE SURE YOUR BREATH DOESN’T SMELL!
May be wise to take a mint right before, because if your breath stinks she won’t care what topic you are talking about.
- Body language! Look confident at all times even if your not! Walk normal, don’t try and look cool. Own your walk, and be proud of it. Your walk is how you present yourself to the world, so make your you look like your proud of who you are, and that you are the hot item on the market.
- Go up to her! Just walking up to her and giving her a “Hey.” Takes alot of courage, and she will give you points for courage. Practice makes perfect! The more you do this to random people, the easier it will come, when you need to do the real thing.
- Have fun! When doing this laugh when appropriate, and when you finally think she is interested in you ask her to do something.
If she says yes just smile and don’t look like shes the first person to say yes, be like sweet.
If she says no, act like its no big deal, and just continue on as nothing happens.
NOTE* you can try asking them again in a few days. But after the 2nd Time its really good idea to stop.