It doesn’t matter how hard you think it is to pick up a girl in a bar or wherever, it’s not as hard as you think. Despite how different women can be, and how hard it is for them to describe the type of men they like, they will all feel attracted to one type of man every time, no matter what.
This man, has a set of qualities that make women feel attracted to him. This set of qualities, are very specific and kind of hard to notice if you are not looking for them. Lets think a little bit here.
What man that you know always have women around? Well it will sure be or a strong tall one or a very smart one or one with very good social skills. Great, but what do these men have in common?
I can bet that this man that has all the women around him is confident, funny, he sure can communicate, he is fun to be with and he is probably the leader of his group.
These are all skills you can learn! The game of picking up girls is just a game for him. You, my friend, on the other hand, probably take it to seriously and don’t have enough fun when you are around women.
How can a girl possibly notice you if you are by yourself, or surrounded by a bunch of guys who have a weird look on their faces? Or even worse, you actually are with a girl but she’s just not having fun with you!
You want to now what the problem is? You need to get out there and get some girl friends. It can be your cousin, the friends of your sister, whoever it is, I don’t care! Your goal is to befriend a good looking girl only to try and understand her and her needs.
Which would be easier if I just told them to you but what fun can you get out of that? Just a tip, girls like to have fun and they are not as tough as they look. That is just a cover.
To reach your primary goal of picking up women, you will need to understand how they think and what they are looking for in a man, which is very simple. First of, they want a man, not a boy.
They also want a man who is going to make her “forget” about her problems and is just going to make her have some fun. They need to know that you are independent, smart, funny, very confident, with a high social status (which is not that hard to achieve once you have some girl friends) and at least with the ambition of becoming a successful, leader-like man.
There are techniques that you can learn to make some of these things easier. Practice them and you will be on your way of being a ladies man. You will have no problem picking up girls in bars at the movies at a party or wherever you like.